Expert Advice on Babies, Kids and Pets -
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Reader's Question

We have a very old dog who I fear doesn't have much longer to live due to old age, however I'm not sure how to explain this to our three year old. Whilst they're not particularly close as he is an outdoor dog, I'm not sure how to explain it to her when he does pass away or if we need to put him down. I feel she is too young to be introduced to the concept of death. What do you recommend? Thanks.

Andrew's Response

The loss of a pet is always a very difficult period. Many of us have been through it, and it can feel like we've lost a member of our family. For children, it is a very difficult concept to understand.

The decision on how to explain this to a child is a very personal one. The best way we believe is to be honest without introducing concepts the child is not ready to understand. Depending on your personal beliefs, it may be appropriate to explain that your pet has gone to "Doggy Heaven", or that he is "Over the Rainbow Bridge". It is most important that you not hide the truth, and that your child understands that your pet is no longer there. It is not necessary to introduce concepts such as death, but to explain the situation in a manner that is appropriate to your child's temperament and understanding. They should understand your dog is gone and won't be coming back, but you can leave them with a feeling that he is happy where he is, and is safe and looked after.

All the best in this difficult time for you and your family.

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